"Hope
is a good thing, maybe the best of things and good
things never die."
From the movie Shawshank Redemption
Kevin
had his first surgery on December 20, 2000 and
unfortunately it was determined that the tumor was
highly aggressive
and inoperable because of the location. He was
started on radiation and chemotherapy to try and
stop the
growth of this lemon size tumor that was growing
in his head. We traveled to the Brain Tumor Center
at Duke, hoping that they would have the answer
- to find the cure for Kevin. Unfortunately, that
was not
meant to be. After trying radiation, 3 kinds
of chemotherapy and 2 surgeries, Kevin lost the battle
and joined Jesus on August 9, 2001 at the age
of
17.
Kevin
was always the strong one, so full of hope. When
he first heard
that he had a brain
tumor, he told me " well, I can deal with the vision
loss as long as the tumor is not cancer." When he found
out that the tumor was cancerous, he said "well, as
long as I can fight this and continue with school
I can
handle this." He never gave up hope that
he would be cured. One day, when we were coming back
from one of
his treatments, I asked him what he thought about the
odds they had given him (they weren’t very promising)...
he said, “Mom if I worry about that, you
might as well bury me right now”. He had a favorite
quote from the movie Shawshank Redemption: “Hope
is a good thing, maybe the best of things and good
things
never
die.” He would ask me all the time, “Mom,
what is that quote I like?” - I could never
remember, but then he would tell me.
Kevin
continued to go to school. He finished his junior
year and was
able to
go to the junior prom. He
wanted so much to be able to graduate with his class. He
wanted to give a talk about hope but, again, that was
not meant to be. Kevin
touched many lives in his short time with us and
he is missed so much by his family
and friends.
He wanted a cure to be found so that others would not
have to go through what he did.
He
told his mom that he wished all the people
running in the Race
for the
Cure fundraisers would be doing so for brain
tumor research - so his family began the Kevin Mullin
Memorial
for
Brain
Tumor Research. For the past 5 years, a 5K Run/Walk
has been held to raise money for that fund. Hopefully,
one day this won’t be necessary, but until
that day comes, Kevin’s family will continue
to keep his hope for a cure alive and well.
For
more information about Kevin, and the Kevin
Mullin Memorial for Brain Tumor Research, please
visit his website at:
www.lemonhead.org
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